I have to say

Something friends and enemies have in common. They broadcast your failures  and whisper your success. They all envy you and try to stab you at times. They talk behind your back. The best thing about your enemy doing all this, it never hurts.

So dear friend if i  say what i want to say,  i would say i hate that you are my friend and enemy at the same time. I hate that you envy and hate my success. So choose what you want to be , enemy or friend

6 thoughts on “I have to say

  1. cicorm October 4, 2015 / 3:08 pm

    Very true, Mary, Friends do not envy, do not gossip. I thought this quote was nice
    “A real friend is one who helps us think our best thoughts, do our noblest deeds, and be our finest selves.”

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    • marymuema October 4, 2015 / 8:20 pm

      Yeah but that type of friends are hard to find . Most become friends when it benefits them.

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      • cicorm October 4, 2015 / 8:47 pm

        Correct, that they are hard to find, so we need to start searching as well as work to become one. Many people don’t even meet one in their lifetime if they don’t look for real friends The ones that only are “friendly” when it benefits them: those are not friends, they are at best acquaintances.

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      • marymuema October 4, 2015 / 8:52 pm

        Sure. I like that, working to become one. If only everyone did that.

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  2. cicorm October 4, 2015 / 9:17 pm

    Definitely nice, if everyone worked to be real friends to others. But even if few did that, just to know that these friends exist, to have one or see people working to become one (though no one’s perfect all the time), changes your life and world view totally.

    But truly, it starts with ourselves, Ironically, if we are not true friends ourselves, we will not even recognize a true friend when we see one, Friendship does not need to be equal, but long term one-way friendship does not actually help the unfriendly one deep inside, as 9 out of 10, nothing is learned. Hence, for practical reasons, to start a change, the true choose only those who are ready to make continual effort become better/less selfish, and who are ready to spread the positive message.

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